The Essence of Good Friday – Tips and Thoughts

In the interest of the first timers here at www.myusefultips.com, the Good Friday reflection posted last year centered on the roles played by Peter, Judas Iscariot and Pontius Pilate and how their actions relate to and infuence us nowadays. The said blog article made reference to Mell Gibson's  movie, The Passion of the Christ, for description purposes.

For this year, the author shall attempt to discuss the merits of Good Friday observance. Did you know that for Christians, specifically Catholics , fasting and abstinence are officially observed on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday? As mentioned in my earlier blog, Good Friday is part of the Three Days (Triduum),  making it as one of the most holy days in the church calendar, hence, people are required to offer more sacrifices for the love of God.

So, what happened on Good Friday? There was a time a friend of mine who has no religious orientation (because sometimes he's atheist, sometimes he's not!) posed this query, “Why do you call it Good Friday? Of course he knows what's being celebrated on Good Friday, as he's a learned man. He's aware of it and in fact, almost all of us regardless of our beliefs know that it's the day when Jesus was crucified and died on the cross. However, some of us, including my philosophical friend , do not have any idea why is it coined “good”, and not “sad”, “bad” or “Black Friday”, since what happened during that day was truly disappointing and harrowing. This is one thing hard to explain especially for reluctant and skeptics. Honestly, I don't have a clear-cut scientific or theoretical definition of Good Friday, even in some of the authorized books of the Church I've read, I haven't encountered any. However, based on the teachings and learning in school and from the priests' homilies in Church, I came to know and realize that it might have been called “Good Friday” simply because it was the time Jesus mission here on earth was accomplished. His sufferings and death turned out to be the fulfillment of God's promise and love for us, that is to save mankind from the destruction of sin and to prepare us for our journey to eternal life, which is Heaven where God's Kingdom is. And that makes it good, not just good but VERY GOOD! As such, we can even call it the “Great Friday” or  how kids put it, "Awesome Friday". The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC) specifically states that Jesus death is the unique sacrifice and it was consummated on the cross.

In today's culture, the persecution and the step-by-step suffering of Jesus starting from His Agony in the Garden of Gethsemane, the Scourging and the Crowning with Thorns up to his tragic journey to Mt. Calvary with the heavy wooden cross would mirror the sufferings of men, the abandoned, the distressed, the lowly, those facing human rights abuses, those experiencing all kinds of pain, emotional, psychological and physical pain. We have always been taught and we've learned that God is in the midst of these people, those who are spiritually and materially poor, and therefore, even if they are experiencing sadness in their lives, effectively they're not because God is always there to comfort and rescue them, if they so desire and call on Him. These kinds of spiritual tenets and truths may be beyond human comprehension. Surely these truths are pretty hard to understand particularly if we have all the comforts in life and material possessions which some of us may have acquired it through illegal businesses, through graft and corruption, by persecuting other people and other means of bad practices. We have to be reminded that Jesus on Good Friday stands for the oppressed, the weak , the destitute and the abandoned. He was physically there to help them.

On Good Friday and Holy Saturday, perhaps it would be prudent for us to reflect on the 8 Beatitudes and compare it with what we've done in the past towards our brothers and sisters throughout the world, our neighbors, taking into account our failures, limitations and shortcomings. As mentioned, God is with the poor in spirit, those who mourn, those who are meek, those who hunger and thirst, the merciful, the pure in heart, the peacemakers, those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake. God will reward these people at the end of the day. However, some of us would argue, if God is with the oppressed and the like, then why are they in such a miserable state? Exactly, this is the substance of Good Friday. This is what it's all about. Jesus wants us to carry our crosses so we can follow Him. One way of responding to this call is to share what we have to and help  other people in need. Oh, this is pretty hard to grasp as it is not easy to give away our treasures, especially if it's hard-earned ….but with God's “paradoxical” promises on the Mount of Olives, there is always hope for all of us, hope that would encourage us to renew our lives, not to give up on ourselves, not to give up on others but most of all not to give up on God.

As we are about to enter the Easter season, myusefultips.com would like to greet you all a Blessed and Happy Easter!

A Moment of Reflection

 

In observance of the Holy Week, myusefultips.com shall be giving you some personal reflections about this season.

 

 

For us Christians, we have learned that Lent is the perfect time for being quiet, reflective, to be sorry for our sins, and  meditate on the passion and death of Jesus Christ. We likewise undertake certain things such as praying and doing acts of mercy and love.

 

 

However, do we know that Lent is the season of the year where we prepare for Easter time as well? Lent signifies the freshness of new life — we could  be transformed hopefully to become new creations ….more joyful, more generous and more encouraging!

 

Have a blessed and meaningful holy week to you all

Lenten Works of Small Hands – Cool Tips and Thoughts

 

Lent is a time for praying, a time for sharing, a time for helping, a time of sacrificing, a time of asking God's mercy and pardon, a time of forgiving people, and most of all,  a time to prepare for Easter.

Grabbing an idea from the school's lenten calendar,  I asked the kids one day if they happen to know someone going through a hard time and if so, to make a card or scribble a note for them to cheer them up and to let them know that they are in their prayers.

Here are some of the kids works and let me know your ideas.  I'm sure they would appreciate receiving them, especially from you guys, people  they haven't met at all.

 

Some even  took the initiative of making one for the victims of the earthquake and tsunami in Japan without being told. Wow, awesome thoughtful kids! Wonderful job!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Shown on the left is an unedited note authored by a cute young girl for the people in Japan. She's a terrific doll!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Incidentally,  the Catholic Relief Services (CRS) has designed a fund raising project, entitled "Operations Rice Bowl", in which majority (75%) of the proceeds shall be earmarked for CRS development programs worldwide primarily to help families and communities overcome the challenges of hunger and poverty, specifically in Haiti, Indonesia, Senegal, Honduras, and Kenya.   The remaining 25% shall be used to fund the local diocesan programs all over the United States to alleviate hunger and poverty in certain parts of the country, especially  the underprivileged and the  homeless.

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If you happen to be involved in a catholic school in the  U.S., you probably have gotten this cute cardboard box whereby students were given  the opportunity to help and contribute in any way they can during the Lenten season  to care for our brothers and sisters throughout the world.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Have you done something like this before, or are you still about to do something like what  the kids did?

The Beauty of Lent: A Layman’s Viewpoint -Tips and Thoughts

According to Church teachings, there are 6 seasons in the Church Liturgical Year, namely: Advent, Christmas, Ordinary Time, Lent, Three Days or ( Triduum), and Easter.

For purposes of this blog, the  discussion shall focus on  Lent, including the Three Days, based on personal knowledge since childhood up to this time. I may not be in a position to discuss its merits in full-length as I am neither a part of any religious congregation nor a theologian/ scholar who is an expert in Canon Law. However, my humble understanding on the subject, acquired through experience and study (with 12 Theology units in college and Religion subjects in high school which were by the way a “must” and part of the curriculum) is pretty much sufficient to blog concisely on this matter.

Let me digress a bit by giving you an “itsy-bitsy” of what I know about the Lenten season before I go on with my story. Briefly, the Lenten season starts on Ash Wednesday and ends on the evening of Holy Thursday. The succeeding days before Easter Sunday is called “Three Days” or Triduum (a period of 3 days of prayer) and it is considered as the Church' greatest celebration and the most holy season of the year as it focuses on the “Paschal Mystery”, that is the suffering, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Note that I put emphasis on the 3-days as I've browsed some articles, one of which was published in one of NYC's major online daily blog newspapers very recently and it failed to mention about this important part of the church year. The said article merely referred the entire period as Lenten season which should not be the case. I would prefer not to go through the technicalities and the rationale for the so-called 3-days, which serves as the “bridge”, so to speak, between Lent and Easter but for those who have inquisitive minds, I would advise you to consult your spiritual directors or start to read appropriate related books on the subject, preferably with an “imprimatur” from authorized church people.

In my childhood days, I had this strange feeling that during Lent, particularly on Holy Week (in which the last days of the week is referred as the Triduum) everything seemed gloomy: from the atmosphere to its inhabitants. The surroundings appear to be sober, people go to church and pray, and some commercial establishments, especially bars and entertainment stuffs, are in fact closed especially during Good Friday. I recall my parents, specifically my Mom would always tell us to be “prim and proper”-as in no boisterous laughing, no playing, singing, dancing or any form of enjoyment. Believe it or not, we're even told not to take a bath during “Good Friday”, particularly after the clock struck at 3 pm (the time at which Jesus Christ is traditionally believed to have died). Oh Yes, it was the normal situation in our home during Holy Week, and if we're caught having a good time, she would call our attention uttering this phrase “ Oh, so you would want to follow the footsteps of “Pontius Pilate” or “Judas Iscariot” . As we always take seriously our parents advises, we would then keep quiet, ponder on what they said, and visualize what happened to Jesus particularly, when going over the 14 Stations of the Cross. Of course, we didn't want to be”Pilates” and Judases”, as it was instilled in our innocent minds that these people were pictured as or were actually the bad guys, the key players in the crucifixion and death of Jesus Christ. My own naivety made me think that every time Holy Week comes, Jesus is actually being persecuted and it made the story more dreadful.

However, despite the sadness in the surroundings, deep in my heart there was peace and happiness, probably because it was one of the precious times that all of us are off for a vacation to be together, go to church and be cleansed and forgiven for our sins through the sacrament of Penance, and lastly it could also be due to the fact that after Lent, the following Sunday would be a great feast, a special treat for all of us, sumptuous food on the table or a good swim in the beach. As mentioned in my blog last year, there are Easter religious rituals and celebrations in our church and in our family which made the ambiance more unique, upbeat and joyful.

As time goes by and as I've learned to face the outside “world”, I came to know that the Lenten season for some people is both a welcoming opportunity and bothersome, depending on one's perspective, particularly in this modern culture. It is a welcoming opportunity for people who looks forward to celebrating the feast with the whole community, offering sacrifices and asking mercy and forgiveness for the sins committed, both past and present. On the other hand, for “non-conformists” who may be in a miserable state as far as their spiritual lives are concerned, but may be happy though in their personal lives depending on one's standards, this time of year could serve as an annoying reminder to re-think and renew their lives, that is, to give up the bad habits or bad relationships they're currently in which cuts their friendship with God. Even with this, the guilty conscience seems not to be working as some would decide to avoid the same. In fact, some would even take a vacation just to forget about the said event and that makes the situation sad as they failed once again to welcome the Savior in their hearts.

Just like you guys, I am definitely not perfect, It's hard, but I'm striving everyday. I could be skeptical at times in certain ideologies, specifically in present contexts of the so-called “giving-up” only in times of Lent. I know it's hard to give up something especially if that particular “thing” (material possessions), “habit” (any form of excessive addictions, corruption practices, etc.), “person” (morality aspect: envy, lust, pride, etc.) are already embedded in one's personal system. It takes a lot of sacrifice to get rid of all these particularly if it's in there. We have this notion that the word “sacrifice” is only for “martyrs” and that “practicality” in any aspect is the name of the game these days. However, through the years, I've come to the point in my life that sacrificing a darn thing for love of God is the worthiest of all the worthy causes. In short, it is relatively easy to give up a treasured thing, habit or a particular person if we have greater love for God.

As some experts said, Lent comes from the Anglo-Saxon word “lencten”, which means spring. We all know that in spring time, everything is on the brink of blooming after a long winter's hibernation. Precisely, it must also be one of the reasons why the church called this season, “Lent”, primarily to ensure that our spiritual growth is on the right track. If we have bodily needs, our spiritual life needs food too. As such, our respective churches' authorities who guide and mold us to be better persons are encouraging us to pray more, for ourselves and for other people in need. We are being asked to offer sacrifices, to share what we have with others. We are given so many heavenly opportunities, we are encouraged to go back to God and turn away from sin, and lead a good renewed life. And that makes the Lenten season BEAUTIFUL, just like springtime!

How about you? How's your”Lent” I mean your”Spring”going?:)

Easter Fun Kids Day – Useful Tips

 

On a lighter note, people from all over the world celebrated Easter Sunday according to their respective traditions. We see various popular icons symbolizing Easter such as Easter eggs,  Easter bunny, Easter lily, Easter basket, Easter flower pots, Easter chocolate and cookies , Easter bell and yes! there is also Easter fish and many more.

The most prominent and observed is the egg hunting activity during Easter day, especially for the children,

regardless of whether or not you’re doing it for 5 or a hundred children, it doesn’t matter. I did this before and have witnessed that this activity could be fun and challenging for the kids to be looking around for the Easter eggs with promised prizes at stake for them.

Since preparations for real egg hunting is more time consuming and tiresome as far as the host is concerned, another better and enjoyable option is to use plastic eggs. Using plastic eggs vs. real eggs is more safer, has lesser risks, and even much more economical. Plastic eggs and stuffs (e.g. miniature chocolates such as kisses, etc, assorted candies, small toys, notes, etc.) in big packages can be purchased at discount, party or wholesale club stores. Just make sure you have plenty and a variety of colors for the plastic eggs and the treats to go into the Easter eggs, depending on the number of kids participating in said activity.

 

There are several useful tips found on the web which you can adopt in your next eggs-citing and eggs-ploring activities! So, enjoy surfing the net! :-)

Easter Sunday – MyUsefulTips Joyful Reflection!

 

 

In non-tropical countries, Easter season occurs during springtime and springtime comes immediately after winter. It is during this season of the year, when cold days are fading and sun starts shining brightly, rivers coming back to life, animals are roaming again freely from hibernation, lifeless brown trunks starting to put on leaves and flowers blooming once again. What a sight to behold!

One of the memorable events I recall about Easter time happened during my childhood days. People were looking forward for Easter season to witness the re-enactment of the meeting of Jesus and Mary after His Resurrection. I remember I have to go with my mother during the wee hours (4 a.m.) of the morning to watch a liturgical play wherein one of the highlights is the meeting ("salubong") of Virgin Mary and the Resurrected Jesus. Coming from opposite direction, the statue of Mary which is covered with a black cloth and Jesus, are scheduled to meet at a designated place. Throngs of people would accompany Jesus’ group while others would accompany that of Mary’s. Thereafter an angel (a little girl chosen among the select few to portray the character) suspended up above would be assigned to take off the black veil from Mary and then people would sing and rejoice. Innocent child as I was, this particular event amazed me, brought goose bumps and joy into my heart, primarily due to the festive atmosphere and with the belief that Jesus has indeed truly risen from the dead during that particular hour and time of day!

As I grew up, this event unfolded to include other rituals such as the blessing of the oil and water outside the church and the candle lighting ceremony where candles held by the people in the church are lit by the holy flame or the so-called Paschal candle.

While the said ceremonies are considered sacred, these are merely symbolic as far as I know. The true meaning of Easter is that this is the time where all of us, as one priest said, should start to be the rays of hope to the downtrodden and the hopeless, the lighted candles in the middle of darkness, and the helping hands to show compassion to the poor and the abandoned. That is the essence of Easter , the glory of Jesus Resurrection, and for this we have the valid reason to be glad and rejoice!

As we marked this great feast, let us recall the many wondrous deeds and favors God has granted in our lives. How many miracles did we receive so far from Him, regardless of the magnitude? What favors and prayer requests have been answered by Him? When were the times that He healed us? I have not been so vocal about God’s responses to the said hows, whats and the whens, but I would like to tell you all that He has provided me many wonderful things in all aspects of my life. I am sure God has acknowledged the gratefulness of my heart despite my weaknesses and I am so deeply touched by it. I know in my heart that God will have answers to my other petitions in the long run, in His time.

And so today is the appropriate time for us to start returning the favors to our Creator and Savior. With the guidance of the Holy Spirit, let us offer our praise, honor and glory that He so deserves by giving and sharing to those in need the light, hope and love provided us by God and at the same time renewing our own lives to the fullest for Christ’s sake.

Having said this and with the resolve to do even better, for sure God will be very glad!

Allow me to greet you all: A Joyful and  Blessed  Easter season!