A Trick or Treat?

Unlike in developing economies wherein majority of the people are struggling to make ends meet, Halloween fun is considered big deal for most of the kids and teens in developed countries like the United States. Lots of halloween hullabaloos (e.g. events, parties, products) about the holiday are being advertised via the tri-media prior to the Halloween night, held in the evening of October 31st , mainly to entice customers into buying or patronizing related products. Some people would then either buy Halloween stuffs, from decors to food, for their homes or trick-or-treating for kids or throw Halloween parties for family and friends. Due to consumer demand, malls and stores would supply the needed things by displaying wide array of Halloween decors, which by the way have likewise evolved through the years, as to colors, sizes, designs, shapes, brands and prices.

This is where commercialization plays a role in shaping the spending habits of people during holidays, be it Halloween, Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, and Christmas. The said holidays nowadays are pretty much highly commercialized, i.e. products are offered on sale, stores are decorated according to holiday theme (e.g. carved pumpkins and skeletons with cobwebs for Halloween), and pre-made costumes (e.g. princesses stuffs from Disney stores) and special candy or chocolate are made widely available, leaving the spirit or the real essence of the particular holiday being forgotten.

Despite the foregoing, Halloween preparations in NYC are definitely felt and visible. There are a couple of homeowners who go out of their way to buy stuffs for Halloween decors, and lots of candies for trick-or-treating where kids in their best pretty or monster like costumes would normally go door-to-door in their neighborhood. My experience last year was a bit disappointing. I placed my favorite handcrafted basket with full of candies, from chocolates, small toys, lollipops, and wide variety of hard and soft candies at the doorstep and placed a note for them to pick some. To my dismay,  a group of teens got all of it, brought along the entire stuff together with my favorite large native basket! They’ve tricked me all along!

Incidentally, while on my way home today, I had the opportunity of taking snapshots of interesting outdoor household spooky decors in my neighborhood such as skeleton crafts, graveyard fun, ghosts, and other scary things. Here, take a peek:

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Whether it’s a “treat or a trick”, I see nothing wrong with participating in any Halloween events for “fun” purposes and especially if one has the means for it. However, it would be prudent to consider the spiritual significance behind it. I don’t intend to elaborate on the origin and history of Halloween, but the fact and the reality that Halloween for majority of Christians, like most of us, is being celebrated on the eve till the wee hours of November 1 which is the feast of All Saints Day, and that the following day is the Feast of All Souls Day, parents may start considering teaching their kids about the relevance of commemorating the said Feasts.

As such, one can celebrate Halloween simply and not overdoing it. After the Halloween fun, parents may then teach their kids to honor and ask intercession from the Saints and the next day, November 2 is the All Souls day, where they should find time to pray for dead loved ones so they can be with God in Heaven forever and that is what is more important. In this way, kids can be treated to a fun celebration, e.g have more candies and games and at the same time they can be informed of the more important concerns about Halloween!

Have a fun Halloween night!

My Useful Do-It Yourself Tips For Springtime: Low Cost, High Class Flower Arrangement

 

Springtime has officially begun two days ago. While the cool crisp air is still hovering around, the smiling sun has powerfully come out from the horizon making my days warm, brighter and  cheerful .

 Before, I dreaded the scorching heat and the humid climate in the eastern part of the globe that I would usually pine for cold spring and fall season days. It is only now that I realize the importance of sunlight, after long months of winter hibernation. Nevertheless, I am still grateful that my body has naturally and easily adapted to the 4 seasons that West has. Before I get carried away by my emotions, let’s go back to what I wanted to share with you. As you may know, one of the major benefits of sunlight is that it helps plants especially the flowers to bloom and be healthy. I am sure majority of the women will agree with me that flowers say so many things and mean so much to us, however and whatever form it may be. Flowers express everything: friendship, love and romance, appreciation, or even to merely show or let a special someone know that she is in his thoughts for a particular day. What is $5 to $10 bucks anyway for your loved one, right?

As the old adage says: “It is the thought that counts” behind the flowers, not the awesome looks (packaging and the price attached to it) and not the fragrant smell! However, it would even be meaningful if the flower come from your garden itself because you'll be able to reap the benefits of the labor of love which you have invested in there.

Here in the US, flowers start to emerge and bloom during springtime until end of summer days.  Candidly speaking, I marvel at the sights of the lovely flowers that grows in the front yards of  our nr rrrr 

nearby neighbors.  I simply love their colors and I am impressed by their fragrance. Since childhood, one of my dreams was to have a “greenhouse” so I could plant my favorites. My wish was granted but not a greenhouse but just clay pots and unused leather tires planted with tropical flowers, maintenance of which as far as I can remember was not good mainly due to climate condition. Flowers can actually be grown outside the window sills of your apartment, or harvested/picked up from your garden (if you have one) or from a neighbor’s garden (with their permission of course), or from a flower store at a flea market or a supermarket for a song!

  These colorful living things can add a fresh feeling to yourself and beauty to the surroundings and it is one way of welcoming spring and summer time to your home.

 Just like what I said before about shopping, flower arrangement is likewise both a science and an art. If you have the knack of putting together things such as mixing and blending colors and matching stuffs, then it would be easy for you to display things in its proper perspective.  There are times that we see flower arrangements in plush hotels and first class condominiums displayed in eye-catching crystal and bronze carved (with semi precious stones) vases. We all know that this kind of arrangement uses a lot of gorgeous flowers and vases which can cost us a lot. Let’s not even go to that far, just the bouquet of flowers sold in commercialized flower shops can be costly. So, what I’m going to provide you now are alternative helpful low cost tips on how to bring in these flowers to the interior of your homes in a fashionable and distinctive way. (Note: These tips are applicable regardless of your location):

1. Instead of using expensive vases for you daily or weekly requirements, you can use tea tin cans which make a beautiful display as vases in your home. I used to have empty tea tin cans at home (after consuming the tea inside of course) which I bought in London and Taipei.

Chinese tea tin cans specifically have this intricate decorative art work which could already pose as décor in your side, coffee , dining or kitchen tables.  If you add garden fresh flowers into it, it will make your room interesting or your table as unique as it appears. Pastel linens, napkins and colored candles will complement the fresh look of the table. If you have several of them, you can group them together to serve as a centerpiece of the table. If you also have an unused tea pot, that will serve as an additional attraction.

2. Assuming you’re not a tea drinker and you don’t have tea tin cans, empty cans of milk,  drinks or sauces or retro-looking cans will make as a substitute.   Old glasses, jars and antique containers which can be purchased at flea markets are cute alternatives.  You just have to use your vision and instinct on how you want to decorate your home with flowers.

3. Another option is the inexpensive ceramic monochromatic white vases which you can find at discount stores , trade shows and flea markets as well.

4. For fillers, you may want to put small cup or container with water inside the tins to hold the flowers and to avoid formation of rust in the tins. Other things which can be seen from craft stores are colored marbles, white sand, seashells or dried leaves and fruits which can serve as fillers as well. You may also want to bundle the flowers together with a rubber band and place them at the center of the makeshift vase.

5. Never use your hands and fingers to cut the stem of the flowers. Use a sharp scissor or knife to cut and trim the flower to have a sharp even cut for proper water absorption.

6. Place your improvised flower vase in a cool place and away from direct sunlight, gas/electric stoves or some objects that emit heat as it destroys the vitamins present in the fresh leaves, thus causing the flower to dehydrate.

7. Last but not least, check and monitor if your vase has still enough water or in worst case scenario has already been infested by bacteria. There are flower preservatives available in the market that can eradicate bacteria in the water.

 

 With all these in mind, I hope your spring time is already in bloom! I also hope to see your version of your improvised flower vase soonest, hopefully using the aforementioned helpful tips !